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a good attitude a good uh reputation a good thing and then no one really cares you know that was my that was kind of like my hardest lesson to learn i think my biggest insecurity was is that i wanted everyone i thought like i want everyone to love me the whole time but actually no one really cares they're worrying about themselves which is actually was kind of refreshing and suddenly i got to like major which in you know late 30s now where i'm just like you you get i don't know if you had this you suddenly get to an age where you sort of let go you stop worrying about stuff as much and i'm kind of in that period now which is maybe that's becoming a dad i don't know you start to not really care about stuff as much and i think you kind of have to have both of the things i said because if you just if if you just think nobody really cares nobody really gives a then there's not a lot of urgency to make good choices because if no one cares who cares right but i I think being a parent certainly changes that game. Like you just you just watch people that you love and you just hope that they make a good choice instead of